Ask permission before you challenge
25 November 2025
Don’t challenge people without permission.
Next time you want to push back, signal your intent first:
👉 Do you mind if I disagree?
👉 Can I ask a really blunt question?
👉 Would you mind if I challenge you on that?
Get permission and you’ll lower tension. You’ll prepare the other person for your comment. You’ll have them opt in to hearing your challenge.
People listen more when they feel in control. And you keep the relationship strong while still saying what needs to be said.
Ask permission before you challenge.
